Sad that in 2020 you still have to point out the scientific fraudulence in measuring body parts and separately busting the Freudian vaginal orgasm myth!
My first sex partner was more experienced than I was. Sex was both pleasurable for me in some sense and frustrating for us both in most senses. She was schooled in Freudian ways of thinking about sexuality, that “vaginal” orgasms were adult and real that clitoral orgasms were to be avoided. After we were both aroused from kissing and foreplay, she insisted on proceeding straight to P in V sex, and would not let me touch her with my fingers lips or mouth. At the same time it was clear she craved clitoral stimulation by the way she sought it, but never directly. After some months I just gave up.