So do full-time dads, as I can attest, and I am fully aware that the obstacles faced by FT moms are much greater — the general misogyny, the lack of networks or mentorship, the low-balling of your abilities and hence compensation, the dismissiveness, the suggestions to “just do volunteer work” …

I am uncomfortable with the back handed praise I’ve gotten, for doing as a father out of choice, what most mothers are by default expected to do without a choice.

I stop to miau to cats.

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