What is appallingly sad is that another woman would ask that of you!

When I was looking to restart monetarily compensated work outside the home, a “Delphic” hiring manager (of the same presumed nationality as your Sita), very impressed with most of my resume, had this to say when he saw that I had listed 8 years as a full-time parent, “Sooo, basically, you did nothing?”

Sadly, many white women think all a stay-at-home dad does all day is sit on the couch (in boxers) eating pizza and watching porn — there is even a bitter book about it, which I discovered in my coparent’s bedside stack when we were getting separated!