Your underlying assumption is that all men consider women to be equal to them or men in general as human beings. If that assumption is wrong, and I submit that it is — few men are feminist, most are misogynistic, then you are asking of those men the equivalent of asking of someone “getting” themselves breakfast to check in with the egg whether it prefers to be boiled or fried (it’s already been laid).

I stop to miau to cats.

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